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Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy by Donald B. Kraybill, Steven M. Nolt and David L. Weaver-Zercher

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(Recommended)

 

 

 

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Foregiveness

 

The shooting of children in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania in 2006 received national attention for at least three reasons: the violence in which five grade school children died and five others were injured; the tranquil setting in which it took place; and the way in which the local community and the families of those shot, forgave the shooter and comforted his family. Three teachers with experience and knowledge of the Amish communities of Pennsylvania collaborated to explain what happened to the rest and wrote Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy. They do an excellent job at explaining the differences among forgiveness, pardon and reconciliation. They tackle questions that many outsiders have about reconciling shunning with forgiving a murderer. We each choose how to live, and Amish Grace presents a way of living that’s unfamiliar to most Americans. Here’s an excerpt, from the end of Chapter 5, “The Reactions,” pp. 61-64:

Using Amish Forgiveness

Despite a few warning lights, responses to the grace extended at Nickel Mines were overwhelmingly positive, so much so that pundits lined up behind the Amish to score points for their own causes. Soon both the shooting and the Amish response became raw material for making argu­ments about issues of national, even international, significance.

As they have after other school shootings in the United States, arguments about gun control and America's culture of violence emerged quickly. "Why does a tormented, suicidal adult, such as the one who shot ten Amish school girls ... have ready access to a semi‑automatic pistol, a shotgun, 600 rounds of ammunition and a high-voltage stun gun?" asked an editorial from Scripps News. Of course, anti-gun-­control advocates saw the school shooting quite differently. "This shoot­ing ... and every school shooting in the past ten years all had one thing in common," remarked Alan M. Gottlieb, chairman of the Citizens Committee for the Right to Keep and Bear Arms. "They all happened in so-called `gun-free school zones,' where students and adult staff are essentially helpless," that is, unable to use guns to defend themselves.

Arguments for and against gun control drew more on the shoot­ing than on the forgiveness that flowed in its wake. But the idea of forgiveness packed great ideological wallop as well, particularly for people who saw acts of retribution they could not support. The big­gest target in this regard was the Bush administration and its war on terror. The Amish response to Charles Roberts was a "blueprint" for how President Bush should have responded after September 11, wrote Doug Soderstrom on the Axis of Logic Web site. If only President Bush had been the "follower of the Lord Jesus Christ" he claimed to be, "the world may have been spared the unfathomable travesty of a 'nation of believers' driven insane by an uncontrollable urge to kill in the name of an all-loving God."

Diana Butler Bass, writing on the Faithful America blog, expressed similar sentiments: "What if the Amish were in charge of the war on ter­ror? What if, on the evening of Sept. 12, 2001, we had gone to Osama bin Laden's house (metaphorically, of course, since we didn't know where he lived!) and offered him forgiveness? What if we had invited the families of the hijackers to the funerals of the victims of 9/11?" Acknowledging that it was too late for that, Butler Bass concluded with what she called a modest proposal: Americans should ask the Amish to assume leadership of the Department of Homeland Security. "After all," she said, "actively practicing forgiveness" is far better than living in perpetual fear.

Other commentators were not quite willing to hand over national security to the Amish, but they still thought the Nickel Mines Amish deserved better grades than Washington politicians in their handling of a crisis. "You respect people who are true to their words," wrote George Diaz of the Orlando Sentinel. While the Amish "are committed to their beliefs," the Republican congressional leadership "is committed to saving its posterior." From there Diaz proceeded to flay House Speaker Dennis Hastert and others for their handling of scandals in the Republican-led House of Representatives. Writing just weeks before the 2006 midterm elections, Diaz quoted an Amish man who, in an interview with CNN, said, "In forgiveness there is healing." Diaz respected the man's simple assertion but added that it "would be nice if somebody [in Washington] accepted accountability" for all the inside-the-beltway shenanigans. "Then, and only then, can forgiveness and healing truly begin."

The Religious Right likewise became a target of these Amish-inspired reflections and so did the Religious Left. "The so-called Christian Right should look closely at the Amish lifestyle for lessons in what is wrong with their approach to faith and politics," wrote Stephen Crockett of Democratic Talk Radio. Unlike James Dobson and his ilk, the Amish "do not seek to impose their values on others by law or force," and "hate has no power or legitimacy among them." David Virtue, writing for "The Voice for Global Orthodox Anglicanism," found a different lesson in the aftermath of Nickel Mines. Recalling the bravery of the Amish school­girls and the courage of those who offered forgiveness, he observed that their response grew out of "raw naked faith," not out of the "pathetic liberal gospel" advanced by the U.S. Episcopal Church's hierarchy. He then invoked the name of liberal clergyman John Shelby Spong, asking his readers if they would "stand up and die" for the theological beliefs held by Spong in the way the Amish girls had stood up for their faith.

It may be stretching things to say that the Amish schoolgirls died defending their faith, although they and their surviving community members clearly demonstrated their faith in their responses to Roberts and his family. Thus it's not surprising that the most consistent and wide-reaching discussion after the shooting focused not on politics per se but on the nature of the Christian life. To be sure, many political issues gun control, school violence, the war on terror, capital punish­ment, penal reform, and violence against women, among others were debated along the way, but the most prominent questions were these: What does it mean to live a truly Christian life? Have the Amish set a standard for other Christians to aspire to?

At least for some observers, the answer to the second ques­tion was yes. Sister Joan Chittister, writing for the National Catholic Reporter, suggested that "it was the Christianity we all profess but which [the Amish] practiced that left us stunned." The Nickel Mines Amish, Chittister concluded, astounded the twenty-first-century world the way the earliest Christians astounded the Roman world: simply by being "Christian."

Theologically speaking, this may be the case. For centuries Christian theologians have cited the centrality of forgiveness to the Christian faith, not only as something Jesus modeled but also as something he com­manded his followers to do. Nonetheless, it's important to recognize that the Amish are, and always have been, quite unlike most people who call themselves Christians. From a sociological standpoint, they are not simply Christians; they are Amish Christians. As Amish Christians, they share a basic set of beliefs with other Christians, but they come to their faith with a unique history, culture, and theology. To really understand the grace offered at Nickel Mines, we must explore the history, the spiri­tuality, and the culture of the people who extended it.

 

After reading Amish Grace, you’ll never again think of forgiveness in the same way you do now.

 

Steve Hopkins, January 22, 2008

 

 

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